Traveling Dog Lady: It's #NationalBlackCatDay

Thursday, November 17, 2016

It's #NationalBlackCatDay

In celebration of #NationalBlackCatDay, I'm re-posting the story of my beloved black cat, Mr. Kitty.

Today, I have Tux who is black and white; and Cali who is a Tortie cat, (mostly black with brown and white). So, no black cats with me today, but Mr. Kitty has always been with us in spirit.

Mr. Kitty took a piece of my heart and never let go.  I think of him every single day.  His is the first story I wrote for the k2k9 blog.

Mr. Kitty

Mr. Kitty -- the Reincarnated Dog

In 1991, about 20-some-odd cats came to our care at the farm.   These 20-odd cats were promptly deposited into our barn, having been driven in a VW hatchback several hours from their New Jersey home where three times that many cats had been living in one house.

Of the 20-plus cats, one very young male cat made himself an immediate friend to us.  Much to the chagrin of many of the people living at the farm.  These folks could've been described as "anti-cat people."

At the time, I was a "cat person", having not yet adopted my two dogs Hobie and Hector, who would come to us many years later.  Oh sure, I had my faithful Timba, and we had Annie and a few others, but during the early 1990s, I most assuredly and most definitely loved cats more than dogs.  To have 20 cats deposited on my doorstep was a dream come true.  I was in love with every last one of them.

This one young male cat was very small, very skinny, and rather sickly.  Someone called him "Skinny Bops" -- I mean even people who hated cats couldn't help talk about this cat and give him a nickname!  That's how likable he was.  "Skinny Bops", later to be re-named "Mr. Kitty" by me, was originally mistaken to be a female.  He was so tiny and sprightly, and he just seemed rather feminine.

Many of the anti-cat people were not happy about the cats.  They wanted to have the cats destroyed, despite the well-known fact that their previous owner was promised these cats would be cared for for the rest of their lives, and despite the fact that the cats had been saved from certain destruction -- at great personal expense -- in the form of an old woman's broken heart.  The woman loved those cats as if they were her own flesh and blood.  She felt responsible for them.  She made us promise they would not be destroyed.  We promised.  They would not be.  They would not  be destroyed.

The first cat to be considered for euthanasia was "Skinny Bops".  He (she, at the time) was very sickly and had a giant bald spot on his (her) side which he (she) would lick for hours on end.  He (she) wouldn't eat, and seemed to be wasting away.  People talked about having this particular cat "put to sleep" at length.  We stood in the way.  This was our most favorite of all the cats that had been delivered to us that day.

We started noticing, when cars pulled in the driveway of the farm, the dogs Timba and Annie (and other visiting dogs) would run up and greet the people arriving.  Along with them, every time, was the little black cat.  I started declaring that he (she) was not just a cat.  He (she) was a very special cat who was really a reincarnated dog!  He (she) acted like a dog in many ways.  While many cats run away and hide from people, or at least sit in defiance, aloof off in a corner with one eye open, this cat was different.  He (she) would run up to people, greet them, meow at them, rub against them and hang around with the dogs, not with the other cats!  He (she) was part of the dog's pack!

We started allowing this cat to hang out in our living quarters at the farm.  We had a large painted wooden deck that overlooked the 150 or so acres of rolling farmland right outside our sliding glass door that the dog, Teaneck (also from New Jersey) knew how to open with his paw, even if it was locked!  The little black cat also learned how to open that sliding door, as well as an old-fashioned "half-screen" that held open the window in the summertime.  The cat would open the door, or the screen, and dart off in search of bats that lived in the cupola of the barn in great abundance.  This cat could catch a bat, in his mouth, every time.  He would bring them to our apartment as "gifts", and then we'd have to enlist his help in catching the flying critter again, so we could escort the little Count Draculas out of our apartment.

I started calling the cat "Missy" because she (he) was a bit mischievous.  I would say things like, "Hey, Missy! Don't open that window!"  The name "Missy" eventually evolved into "Miss Kitty" -- in spite of the character from the old Gunsmoke television show.

One day, Miss Kitty walked up to some inanimate object, I don't remember if it was indoors or out, backed into it, and sprayed a big long stream of urine onto the object.  That was the day it occurred to me that Miss Kitty was not a Missy at all.  She was a he!  We immediately renamed the cat Mr. Kitty, and that name stuck.

We never did allow anybody to kill Mr. Kitty.  He ended up living with us for years, and becoming elderly.  When we left the farm, Mr. Kitty was one of only seven cats we were able to rescue from certain death.  Mr. Kitty moved with us to our next house where we lived for about a year.  And then back to my little cottage on the pond where we all lived -- me, Gil, Timba, Mr. Kitty, Love Kitty, Filkin, Maggie, Charlie, Louise and two parakeets.  We picked up another cat, Pointy, at the cottage.  We lived in the little cottage, all eleven of us, for about three years, and then we moved across the street where we still live today, minus all of the cats except Maggie.  Mr. Kitty came along for all those moves.  When we moved across the street, he refused to be brought over in a cage like he had the previous two times.  Instead, he walked across to the new house with me and Timba.

Mr. Kitty remained Timba's companion, going with her on her morning walks every day, and her afternoon walks every day, for the next 5 years or so.  When Timba passed away, Mr. Kitty was as sad as the rest of us.  He became old himself.

In the end, we tried to provide medical cures for Mr. Kitty, but it was hopeless.  His kidneys had failed, and he, the former "Skinny Bops" was losing weight. The vet sent us home and told us he'd euthanize Mr. Kitty if and when we needed it to happen.  Mr. Kitty even lived several more months after that.  In October of 2002, Mr. Kitty hadn't been outside in about a year.  Never being a house cat, it was difficult for us, because he really didn't know how to use a litter box.  

One day in late October, it was one of those Indian-summer days when it's warm during the day, but cold at night.  Mr. Kitty "asked" to go outside.  We let him out.  He walked the neighborhood, on the same route as he had once done with Timba.  He went door-to-door, visiting all of his and Timba's old haunts.  He didn't come back in the house that night.  We left the garage open for him -- all our cats know to go to the garage if they have to stay outdoors overnight.

The next morning, my neighbor hollered over to me, "Are you missing a cat?"  I said yes.  She said she found a dead cat in her yard.  She put the cat in her trash barrel.  She asked me to come over and ID the body.  Sure enough, lying there curled up in a little ball was our beloved Mr. Kitty, dead as a doornail, and flat as a board.  She said, "He's flat as a board. Why is he like that?"  I explained that he had been very sick for many months. Poor lady thought her husband had run over the cat with his car!  No, Mr. Kitty was just that skinny.  Skinny as the day we met him in 1991.  No, skinnier.

We buried Mr. Kitty in the Timba Memorial Park, right beside his beloved canine pal, Timba.

Timba and Charlie the cat.  I don't have a picture of Timba with Mr. Kitty. 


  1. That's a sweet story of Mr. Kitty. Sounds like he had a good life with you - and had a lot of personality! Wow, 20 cats at one time! I can't imagine!

    1. The woman who had the cats (my late mother-in-law) had over 60 at her house!!! We thankfully lived on a big farm, so they went from being cooped up in a little house to having free roam of the entire farm, barn, land. Today, three is good. Three is good. lol


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