Traveling Dog Lady: 2025

Friday, May 23, 2025

Bathroom break tips when traveling solo with dogs

Petey

Charlie Brown

The late, great Cooper

I have traveled with dogs quite a lot. My career was in student educational travel where I worked for over 30 years doing office jobs and worked my way up to vice president and shareholder before retiring.

So, I wanted to write upsome suggestions for traveling with dogs, as I have been seeing online that the subject keeps coming up in various travel or travel-with-pets groups.

One thing people always ask about are bathroom breaks for the human, and what is proper protocol. The best thing, obviously, is to have a human traveling companion, and each human takes turns using the restroom while the other one stays with the dog(s). But what about the solo traveler (such as me, before I met my current husband)?? It's tricky. And times have changed over the last decade or so, making it even more tricky for the solo dog loving traveler. Not to mention, I've always had more than one dog, so traveling alone with TWO or THREE dogs is quite challenging! But I've done it, and if I can do it anyone can.

The first thing I always suggest is find a pet-friendly place that has a bathroom. One of my go-to solutions is a pet supplies store like Petco or PetSmart. You most likely would have to take an exit off the highway, and likely drive a few miles to find the nearest store, but once you do they have a restroom and you can bring your dog into the store AND the restroom without even having to ask. This is the ultimate best solution I have come up with. 

Stores like Home Depot and Lowe's, Michael's, Ace Hardware and a few others may also allow dogs, but I don't think I've ever seen anyone with multiple dogs inside one of those stores, so do your homework first before assuming you could bring three dogs into your next Home Depot!

The next best idea is a rest area with exterior restrooms that don't necessarily have any signage about dogs. In other words, they're sort of "silent" on the topic of whether or not your dog is welcome. These are kind of hard to find, but I do remember, when I used to go to Cape Cod to check on my cottage in the winter, I could always find a rest area that had these exterior restrooms.

Third, park in a shaded area (such as under a covered section of a gas station & convenience store where the gas pumps are). Pump some gas first (purchasing something always helps, and you'll be on camera, most likely). Leave your windows open about 3 inches -- just enough to get air in the vehicle, but not enough to fit a person's hand. If you have a sun roof or moon roof, open that up a little too. In my personal opinion...DON'T leave your car running with the a/c on! Some will disagree with me on that. You do you, but I wouldn't do it. Dash quickly into the restroom inside the convenience store, use the restroom, wash your hands, and come back to the car. Do this as quickly as you can and do not dawdle or buy anything in the store. I did this for many years, but nowadays people are apt to try to break your windows, steal your pet, or report you to the police. So, it might be a good idea to have a sign that says "Human in bathroom, they'll be right back, we are safe and loved!" Or something like that. 

As for pet-friendly hotels, oh boy do I have some stories!! Be assertive, especially if you're a female traveling alone with one or more large dog(s). The hotel may be pet friendly, but they will try to put you in the WORST room. I know, because it has happened to me more than once. Explain that your dog is clean, well-behaved, housebroken, doesn't chew, etc. and that you are alone and need to be safe. I have horror stories of filthy rooms crawling with flies and roaches, broken toilets (one of the main reasons I would stay overnight rather than continuing to my destination!), and "crack house" type hotels teeming with unsavory humans. I've been put in the worst, filthiest rooms, on the ground level of a hotel, simply because I had a large dog. Be sure you stand up for yourself and don't be afraid to take your business elsewhere if you have to!

I've traveled with my small dog, Petey, several times during the pandemic. We went camping, and also stayed at hotels. He's always welcome. They definitely treat smaller dogs differently than big ones, and they definitely treat couples better than single female travelers. How unfortunate.

I have lots of other "traveling with dogs" tips, but I've gone on long enough!! Hopefully you can find some of this usable! lol

Take care, and happy travels!
Kathy Mandell


Meow!


Monday, March 3, 2025

Our first "Triday" without Cooper

 It's been almost a year since Cooper passed away. It went by so fast. We moved, we sold the house where he passed away in the living room, leaving his spirit and Newman's behind as we go on to our next adventure. 

Cooper's brother, Charlie Brown, is aging, but still full of life. We took him on an excursion yesterday to one of those shelter charity events where they have bands playing and lots of food and dogs. He did ok, but it took a lot out of him and I noticed he was very stiff this morning. He slept almost too soundly. He is now 13 -- almost 13 1/2! How did this happen? Charlie, my little puppy who bugged Hobie relentlessly when Hobie was 13 himself. Now it's been ten years since Hobie passed, and a year since Cooper did.

Today is "Triday" (3/3). It's the day when parents of three-legged pets celebrate their amazing dogs and cats who live life on three legs. I always participated in this through the Tripawds organization, a group I have supported for many years because they offer a wealth of information on how to care for three-legged pets, also known affectionately as "Tripawds".

I looked at my calendar today and said to myself, "Oh look! It's Triday!" and then I realized, he's not here for the first Triday ever. Last year, we celebrated Triday with him, and he was practically normal. Sure, he was slowing down, but never in a million years did I think he would be gone just three weeks later.

For all the tripawd parents out there, know that your pet can live a pretty good life on three legs, with just a few adjustments and taking special care not to let them overdo it!

Here's a photo of Cooper from the good ol' days, doing what he loved best.... R.I.D.E.